LOVE VS LOVE

During the teenage years and coming to the beginning of the adult age, all of us at some point of time get this strange feeling of getting attracted to someone or maybe you can call it a crush... this feeling is normal and there is no harm if you like someone... its all that nature has given us... but the point is many in the age between 18-20yrs and even teenage kids find it cool or maybe they think its a fashion to have a relationship with someone or have a boyfriend/ girlfriend!... This is happening all around if you just try to look into the matters of many students almost 75% of the students from various colleges find this to be more interesting than their studies!!... Well, I think the major reason behind this is the influence of Television serials and Bollywood movies on the people because most of us like watching them. If you notice most of the movies and especially serials are all related to love, ishq-vishq, pyaar vyaar... and other things which i dont find is useful for the teenage people... I think they should make something more sensible that will help students concentrate more into the realistic part of the world rather than dreaming about your future relationship!... Just Imagine 75% people or the right word is students, just do this, hanging around with your so called mate in malls, beaches and God knows where?? They concentrate on other things rather than paying attention to their studies and ruin their life...Well, just want to ask you guys a question, why are you wasting so much of your time in this when you already know that you definitely have to get married at some point of time in life... Why to think about it now? At a younger age?... I guess its better to leave this decision to your parents... By trying to find out someone you like and having a love marriage at a younger age against your parents will, remember you are only thinking more about how to keep yourself happy in future and less about your parents will.


Your Parents, do so much for you, they have got so many dreams for you that my son/ daughter will make us feel proud someday!... They surely expect a lot from you. They put in so much of hard work to bring you up in life... Even though they didn't get a chance to study, they make you study well and give you an opportunity to become something in life... I think each one of us, should make good use of this opportunity because we must understand that not many people in this world get a chance to study. Now lets go on to our society, state and of course our country just look around you, the people who are suffering, who don't get proper food to eat, no proper clothes, because of poverty and some of our selfish political rulers and people who only work for their benefit... our country has gone to dogs! We are the younger generation, I guess we have to come forward to make this place a better place to live in rather than wasting our time in other non-sensible things... let us try to make 1st of all our parents, family and friends happy, then our society, state and finally play a small but some role in lifting our countries pride...

So, think about it... one side you've got love from your parents all the way, you've got responsibilities on your shoulder and other side is you fall in love with someone whom you've been known only for about 2yrs or so and you spend so much of your precious time in impressing that person? Lets just not get influenced by the movies, and leave thinking about a future relationship till you've really done something fruitful in life! And if it has not been possible then even if you have got married or if your already into a relationship, see that you just don't mix the two things up! ;)

ENGLISH RUINED US

The first question that may arise in any person's mind is, Why and who introduced English? Well, the answer to this question is very obvious! The British introduced the English Language as well as the western system of education in India. They did so during their rule over India in the 19th century. This was done so that the Indians were moulded according to the British needs and were able to serve the government. Thus, the British could have able officers at a low expense rather getting those from England. Therefore, english was introduced in India and still we people speak English and feel so proud in speaking this language only because it belongs to the WEST! Some of us are so much influenced with the western culture that we forget our own rich Indian culture. I don't say that its all of us who are doing this... but most of our people are heading towards this and this is definitely going to block our country's progress... But the main question is why are we so much involved in learning English and improving it day by day instead of trying to learn our own mother tongue properly... Have you ever tried to understand how much inequality, insecurity and inferiority complex can this language bring to our society? If i'm not mistaken, almost 80% of the Indian people lose their job only because of lack of good communication skills... Parents force their children to learn english even if the child is not interested in it... Even in our society, the person who is more sound in english is considered to be superior than the person who doesn't know to speak english... Our country inspite of having so many types of languages- Hindi, Marathi, Telgu, Tamil, Kanada, Sanskrit... and also different types of each language, most of our people still prefer to give english the 1st priority... Now, at this time it seems simply impossible to get this language out of our country because it has partially become the official language of our country but if this language would not have been introduced then the scene would have been like we would have been like other countries like china, greece, japan, france, germany where all institutions are run in their own language and not english and also if one wants to join any of their institutions they have to first learn their language and then join... isn't that interesting! All people living in Maharashtra would speak only marathi, Karnataka would speak only kanada... and of course the main language would be hindi, all institutions in India would be run in our own languages... so can you imagine how simpler life would be for us, we could study in our own language, there would have been no communication problems, people would have got more encouraged to their work, no time would have got wasted to learn a so called important language like english, equality would have remained in our society and finally all this would have contributed a lot to the progress of our country... Anyways, you must me wondering that this article itself has been written in English... so why against this language?... well, i'm not against this language... i dont say that please stop learning this language cause its ruining our country... I only want to convey that it should not have been made the official language of our country otherwise anyone is free to learn any language they wish to!!!